Don't make any long term plans that involve you and her.
Do make plans for when she leaves.
Do not watch her very closely unless you want to find out who she is already fucking.

 

Ok, mistery solved, I sat her down and we talked.

As I said before I keep a very thight leash (every month I get the details of phone usage, I have a keylogger on her pc, there are cameras on the entrance to the building for security purposes, she cant pick her nose without me knowing, I have issues I know but thats a different subject).

The entire thing came up after a long talk we had in which I told her I was sexually unsatisfied and that she had plenty of chances already to make things right but she didn't.
Long story short she was not ok with the idea from the start and she's probably never going to be ok with it so, I guess I'm not fucking anyone else, at least in the near future.

 

Yeah, well, I can't speak for your gal yet I can assure you after those antics the only way you would ever get laid was by someone else... Mostly in that I I'd already be fucking someone else long gone from that nonsense. Point being?

Find a mirror to discover the problem in your relationship.

Hush....an alias

 

Sounds like your being set up for something either she wants an excuse to have something on the side or to hold it over you as a bargaining chip later, be careful and ask her!

 

Having read your last post

I found it hilarious that in your original post that you described her as being jealous, you are fucking paranoid.
Why do you think its a different subject?
With her jealousy and your paranoia how can you have any kind of relationship between you.
My advice is to do what she suggested, find another chick to fuck ...... but after you've left her, which I should think she would be happy for you to do.

 

Right there is your problem.
She is getting tired of all of your bullshit and looking for a way out. Can't say as I blame her.
There is always a way around all of the things you think will continue to let you control her.
She will find a way out and find someone. Just a matter of time.

 

A conversation has been initiated so I suggest you talk it out as it sounds like the first step in a negotiation to me!

Thinskin

 

Well now we all know you are fucking asshole and she is best off without you, well done for setting the record straight for us. My advice would be to be real nice to her because no other woman on the planet would put up with you

 

Wow, thats a lot of triggered people.
As I said before my paranoia is not the subject I was trying to discuss, besides she has the same level of monitoring on me so, I think its a fair enough deal.

Well, lucky me then that it is not up to you nor is she anything like you apparently.

As much fun as it is to be judged by a lot of meanies on the internet (oh no, how am I ever going to sleep now) I took what little assistance some of you gave and it was actually helpful (to some degree), talking things over a million times seems to be the better way to solve this kind of situations

 

*yawns*...

Hush....an alias

 

I also do not like all the judgement from the fire and brimstone brigade but it turns out that you insisted your gf was the jealous type and yet you have her under surveillance. I agree with Hush in that jealousy is an unwelcome guest basically because it is the antithesis of trust and honesty.

What you are doing is not dominant it is abusive!

Thinskin

 

You have described my wife and me not getting any. 2nd marriage I needed you as a mom/coach years ago.

 

Foot meet mouth!, I didn't mean it in a negative way at all, you are hot as fuck and a lift role play would be fun with my hot step mom

 

Perhaps she’s one of those mythical cuckqueans?? Though others have brought up some good and more likely points

 

She's already fucking other people, men/women/both,......AND, she is giving you a really big shit-test......she is setting you up to lose. I'd seriously consider 'watching your back, my friend. This is typical behaviour from a self-centered creature. She sounds as if she's trying to assert her dominance over you, be careful.
Don't fall for this game she is trying to play you, IF you were to fall for her 'offer', by jingo, you'll PAY for it big time, sooner or later.
Good luck.

 

She’s just wants you to pick a road, because she has and your not on it. Makes her departure easier to defend.

 

That means she has a side guy.

 

Of course it is a trap.... but there is no action you can take that will make you perfect

 

Sidechicks always become my main chicks. If it's so fucked up I need a side chick I'm gone.

 

She want to try another guy . That's the only reason why she wants you do have another girl.
I'll record what she says and ask her if knows someone then go for it. The recording is for your own protection. Lol